We are not like anyone
Nobody is equal to anybody… Univillian twins, no matter how similar they are, are not equal, just like the two hands of the same body. Not even diseases are the same, they behave differently in different individuals. Atypias also present themselves in different ways in each individual and so, we continue with the initial message.
Given all of this, making comparisons seems rather useless and today, what you see most around are comparisons. Do not make comparisons of your goals, nor your achievements and especially, do not compare your body with any other.
Unfortunately, society hasn’t created us to be self-sufficient, it creates unattainable standards of beauty, dictates fashions, says what we should and shouldn’t eat, makes us consumerists and makes us feel guilty when we don’t achieve it all.
When we compare ourselves with other people, other lives, we forget our own, we forget that there are environmental factors to be considered, as well as religious factors, support networks, whether you have children or not, financial conditions, your own particularities…
Life on social networks is static, without difficult moments, physiological needs, lack of compensation, lack of food in the pantry, differences of opinion with x companion. This life “equals” everyone as if we were marbles manufactured on a large scale, but we are not equal and that’s good.
Do therapy, drink 3 liters of water a day, eat vegetables and if you can, move more, be who you admire the most and if you don’t, that’s fine. See you soon!